Posts Tagged ‘November/December’

The Dish Room

Sunday, November 1st, 2009

By Don Emmerich

“If you don’t even know where the dish room is,” Barbara said, glaring at me with what could only be contempt, “then you shouldn’t be working here. I don’t know why they hire temps anyway.” With that she walked away, leaving me alone in the back aisle, still without any forks.

Yes, life as a banquet server was never easy, especially when I was assigned to work at a hotel I’d never been to before. But, not to be discouraged, I walked down the employee hallway, looking inside one room after another. Stepping inside a ballroom, where some people were celebrating a fiftieth wedding anniversary, I spotted another server, a twenty-something guy leaning against the wall, typing a text-message on his cell phone. “Excuse me,” I said, “do you know where the dish room is?” He looked up at me, smiled, and then uttered what sounded like a mixture of Russian and English. “I’m sorry,” I said, “I don’t understand.” Still smiling, he looked back down and resumed text-messaging.

Somehow or other, I finally made my way to the dish room, only to learn that they didn’t have any forks. So I continued looking and eventually found an entire tub of spare forks in the restaurant.

“What are you doing with that?” a waiter named Manny asked me. I explained my plight. Manny just shook his head and told me he needed the forks for breakfast the following morning.

“But my banquet starts in a few minutes,” I pleaded.

“Sorry,” Manny said, not really sounding all that sorry.

I continued to plead. He continued to resist. So I finally gave up and returned to my ballroom, having no idea what I was going to do. As I stepped into the ballroom, I saw a middle-aged woman named Juanita placing forks on the tables. “Where’d you find these?” I asked.

“They say you have no forks.” She looked up and smiled at me. “So I find forks.”

Looking back now on this experience, I’m struck by how analogous it is to the Christian life. Like transient banquet servers, we who follow Christ are outsiders. Although we live in the world, we are called to live by a different set of rules. As a result we often find ourselves feeling invisible, lost, confused, out of touch, or faced with hostility.

For this reason, we should be thankful for the helpers God sends our way, those Juanitas who come by, often when we least expect it, and give us a much-needed hand. And for this reason, we should also pray that God would use us to be such helpers and to reach out to outsiders – be they refugees from foreign lands, people new to our neighborhoods, or even lowly banquet servers in desperate need of some silverware.

Meeting the Needs: Our Call as Christians

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

By Adam Bayer

Saw Lo (known to his American friends simply as “Luke”) grew up in Burma (now Myanmar) and spent time in South Korea and Thailand before coming to the United States. He works full-time in Dallas for an organization that brings other Burmese refugees to America. Beyond his work at the office, Luke serves his refugee friends who often knock on his door “because they need something.”

As a refugee himself, Luke identifies three main problems that refugees face. First (and foremost) is the language barrier, which presents a nearly insurmountable obstacle to assimilating into American culture. Many refugees speak so little English that something as simple as grocery shopping presents a predicament. Second is finding employment. Many aliens possess skills needed in their home countries but not in America. Coupled with the language barrier, the lack of marketable skills often makes it difficult for refugees to acquire decent jobs. Finally, if these individuals overcome these two hurdles, a new quandary often emerges—transportation. “A trip that takes thirty minutes by car may take three hours by public transportation,” remarks Luke. A six-hour commute added to an eight-hour workday leaves little time for family, learning English, or loving neighbors.

The Bible offers a number of reasons that we are to love and accept people, including refugees. Most simply, God instructs people to love their neighbors as themselves (Leviticus 19:18; Matthew 22:39). As Jesus made clear in the parable of the Good Samaritan, our “neighbors” are anyone we encounter who is in need. We don’t have the luxury of picking who that is. In addition, the Israelites were instructed to treat resident aliens as citizens and to “love” them, based on their experiences as aliens in the land of Egypt (Leviticus 19:34). In the New Testament, Paul tells the Philippians, “Our citizenship is in heaven” (Philippians 3:20). This verse insists that Christians are refugees. We belong in heaven, but live on earth.

How should the church respond to refugees and their problems? First John 3:18 instructs Christians to “love not in word or speech, but in truth and action.” The letter of James provides rationale for such a command by offering Christians a hypothetical scenario: “Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, ‘Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed,’ but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?” (James 2:15-16, NIV). He assumes an answer of, “None.”

James specifies that Christians ought to meet the physical needs of the impoverished. If those needs include food and clothes, then we are called to give food and clothes. If those needs go beyond these daily necessities, are we not called to go the extra mile as well? In fact, Luke comments that few refugees go without food. Instead of food and clothing, the refugees need to learn English, they need jobs, they need transportation, and they need “to feel loved.”

Luke remarks that his employer prohibits official church involvement in his job but that refugees rarely complain about churches that offer them physical assistance before, or in conjunction with, spiritual guidance. Quite the contrary – they tend to listen to the message of those churches. The lesson? People care what Christians know when they show they care.

Investigate the opportunities your city. Give of your time to help those in need. Come and serve alongside Christians like Luke. Experience a small aspect of the sacrifice the Savior offered for you.

Adam Bayer and his wife, Joy, celebrate Adam’s recent graduation from Dallas Theological Seminary and seek God’s guidance for their future.

Daily Reflections for November 2-8

Friday, October 23rd, 2009

Weekly Lectionary Texts


Ruth 3:1-5; 4:13-17
Psalm 127
Hebrews 9:24-28
Mark 12:38-44

Monday, November 2. Read Ruth. Ruth and Naomi were refugees, strangers in Israel. They were dependant on the kindness of a distant relative, Boaz. No one expected blessing of a king for Israel to come from a Moabite woman. What are some things God has done to bless your life?

Tuesday, November 3. Read Psalm 127. Ruth and Naomi had much to be anxious about. The psalmist reminds us that all of us are busy with anxious toil. In what way are you anxious? What does this psalm have to say about your anxiety?

Wednesday, November 4. The author of “An Unexpected Journey” (page 9) tells of her own experience of being a refugee. As you read her story, think about those who may be refugees for a variety of reasons in your community. Find a way to reach out to them.

Thursday, November 5. Read Mark 12:38-44. Like refugees, widows without men to protect and provide for them were poor and often hungry. Think about what her small gift cost her. When was the last time you gave a gift that truly cost you, that was a true sacrifice? Give away something of your own that you treasure today.

Friday, November 6. World Community Day. Begin today to find a way to interact with someone who has come as a stranger to this country. Learn about his/her language, customs, and games. Share a meal together in which each of you brings a family dish. Pray for this person.

Saturday, November 7. In “One Man’s Story” (page 16) Gat Luak mentions a number of specific needs of refugees. How can you get involved in helping others in a concrete way, for example to help as a tutor, an employer, or a driver? Investigate the opportunities in your community.

Sunday, November 8. Thirty-second Sunday of Ordinary Time. As you read Hebrews 9:24-28 today, think about the ways that you “eagerly await him.” How do you await or expect the presence of Christ in your life? What does it mean to you to live in eager expectation? Where do you see the presence of Christ in others?

Prayer
God of the stranger, you welcomed me; send me to welcome others in your name. Amen.

Nancy Ferguson is a Presbyterian minister and certified church educator. Her ministry experiences range from seminary instructor to pastor to curriculum developer to camp director to outdoor ministries consultant. She is the author of six books and a frequent workshop leader. Nancy is an articulate advocate for experiential faith formation and experiences beyond the walls of the church. She lives in Accomac County, Virginia near Chincoteague Island where she focuses her attention on creation of educational and spiritual resources for congregational members, church leaders, and camps.

You can visit her website at www.BlueTreeResources.org