Establishing Stability amid Change

by Beth A Richardson on August 28, 2015 · 8 comments


By Kathryn Haueisen

After four moves in five years, I wrote a book entitled Married and Mobile to help other trailing spouses realize they weren’t alone in the seemingly endless migration from place to place. That was many moves ago. Some of us seem destined to be permanent newcomers. How do we establish continuity and stability in our faith lives when we’re so often relocating?

Even if we manage to stay at one address for many years, other aspects of our lives may change. Neighborhoods — and neighbors, work assignments, and family members can all be in flux. Finding satiability in the midst of chronic change can be daunting.

Living with change isn’t new. Early in Genesis we read that Abraham and Sarah migrated far from all that was familiar to them. Three generations later their great-grandson Joseph, against his will, was shipped off to Egypt by his jealous brothers. Abraham became the founding faith father of three major world religions. Joseph eventually became a highly trusted and respected Egyptian leader. While we might prefer fewer changes in our lives, Scripture assures us that God works through people in the midst of change.

Trusting that God will go with me, I’ve developed some devotional habits I can take wherever I go.

  • I keep my devotional things in a wicker basket that I can easily transport from home to home. When I unpack it and place it on a familiar end table next to a favorite chair, I am ready to begin one familiar routine.
  • I keep a collection of favorite daily devotional books that I reread every few years. Seeing how life seems to go round in circles rather than in a straight line is comforting.
  • When I travel, I carry a devotional book in my carry-on bag, handy for breaks on a long trip or in the daily routine once I reach my destination.
  • I also keep a journal and sometimes read old entries, which remind me that situations or emotions I’m facing now have occurred in some form earlier in my life.
  • In every new place I seek out places for solitude and prayer. Some of my favorite mini-retreat places are libraries, parks (sometimes just a pocket park with a bench and garden), and nature trails.
  • When I travel I seek out airport chapels. Rarely do I encounter anyone else using them. If others are there, they too are looking for a quiet place to mediate.
  • Churches often leave their buildings unlocked, welcoming those who pass by to pause and pray during the week.
  • A car makes a great portable prayer space when parked away from traffic.

Staying with familiar spiritual routines may take a little time and discipline, but creative thinking should yield ways to maintain habits that nurture our spiritual well-being, regardless of the changes around us.

Ultimately, any long-term stability we’ll know in this lifetime comes in staying focused on Jesus Christ — the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.

Kathryn Haueisen is a retired ELCA pastor and a newlywed. Her retirement plans are to enjoy being married again, spend time with family, volunteer, and write. She lives in Houston, TX, but is willing to travel to just about anywhere the opportunity to do so comes along.

Credit: “Establishing Stability amid Change” by Kathryn Haueisen. From September/October 2015 Alive Now. Copyright © 2015 by The Upper Room. Purchase a copy of this issue on “Stability” by calling 1.800.972.0433. Or download the digital issue today.

Jena F jones October 17, 2015 at 12:10 am

Hey Katherine

I feel and understand the pain of instability. I too travel often, having no particular place to call my own. The environmental stress often distracts my prayer life, even provoking anger, disgruntledness, and persecution. God clearly states to lay not up for yourself treasures on earth, as the earth and everything in it will pass away, but our reward is in heaven. I still do not want to dwell in tents, or unstable habitations where my heart, soul, and faith cannot thrive, unsuccessful in reaching the heart of my Jesus. I truly desire to build up my spiritual account, and treasures in heaven, but my surroundings seem to keep me in the exact same realm of disgrace, lack, and highness of spirit. I want to reach higher for more of the morsels of the goodness of his word that only a dilligent Christian who truly loves God the Father would seek, however my envious neighbors or those living around me seem to attempt to control my thought life through persecuting me to death, even threatening my life, attempting to control or dominate the holy spirit, trying to provoke fear, evil, bondage, and brokenness. God clearly tells us not to cast our pearls before such swine, unless we live like the prodigal son who served pigs even licking up the slop left in barns, until begging for his Father to hire him, therefore laboring to earn his keep, being able to afford a place to live. It’s sad but many Christians are being dominated into brokenness, and bondage by those whom hateth the word of our Father God.

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